Pets and Your Wedding CeremonyAnyone who is getting married wants to make sure they include their closest friends and family members in their festivities. But what about family pets? For many individuals, pets are a much-loved part of the family unit and many couples are choosing to include their pets in their wedding ceremony. While many might scoff at this idea, true pet lovers believe it's the right thing to do.
However, including a pet might not be as easy as it seems. Some locations – including churches or fancy reception halls - will be adamant about not allowing pets, so be sure to ask before you make any decisions. However, if you're committed to including your dog, cat, or other animal in your wedding, be sure to schedule the event in a place that allows animals. The best location is generally at an outdoor wedding where restrictions will be few.
Furthermore, it's necessary to consider the disposition of your pet before making a decision to include him/her in the festivities. Does she bark a lot? Is he aggressive towards strangers? Will he get into the food? The last thing you want is for your ceremony or reception to be ruined by an unruly pet so give careful thought to what might go awry if your pet is included in the wedding party.
If you do decide that your pet can handle being included in your wedding ceremony or reception, consider what the best role may be for your animal, and remember to be flexible. Like small children, pets don't always perform as you wish. Also, it's a good idea to let your pet "rehearse" his or her role, especially if the pet is functioning as a "ring dog" or in some other important job. And always have a "human" back up plan, just in case the pet is uncooperative.
If it's easier, you can simply plan to have your pet present at the wedding without allowing him/her to have a specific job. A small pet can be in a crate or cage while larger pets should be kept with a trusted handler who can make a quick exit if things get out of hand. Also be sure to protect your pet during the event. Certain reception foods can be toxic for your dog or cat, so be sure that guests are not permitted to feed your pet.
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