Bachelor Party Etiquette

Years ago, the words “bachelor party” and “etiquette” would never have appeared in the same sentence. These days, however, groomsmen give more thought to organizing the bachelor party than they ever did. Gone – for the most part – is the late night party at a sleazy bar with greasy food and a stripper who jumps out of a cake to tempt the groom one last time before he enters married life.

If you’ve been charged with organizing a bachelor party, there are a few things to remember that will keep things on track and make everyone’s experience a memorable one.

· The groom pays for nothing! Even if you’re going off on a short weekend trip, the groom’s expenses should be covered by the groomsmen and other attendees. For that reason, make sure everyone is clear about expenses before the event begins.

· Consider the wishes and personality of the groom. If he’s not a daredevil, don’t plan a skydiving trip. If he’s not the stripper type, avoid embarrassing him and don’t schedule a stripper. Not sure what to do? Ask the bride for some ideas or talk to the groom’s parents.

· It’s okay to invite male friends that aren’t in the bridal party to the bachelor party. However, make sure they are also on the wedding guest list. Again, they will need to share in the cost.

· Don’t schedule the bachelor party for the night before the wedding. This old tradition resulted in lots of hangovers and many angry brides. Hold the event at least a week before the ceremony, earlier if necessary. And if you are serving alcohol, be sure there are a few designated drivers on hand if guests are heading home right after the party.

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